When I was a teenager I started to make deeper incursions. By my 20s I learned that you can usually keep a steady job with only a minimal investment in the straight world. You show yourself present for that bare minimum, conspicuously doing your level best in limited instances. Then, those times when you're obviously phoning it in or sending it straight to voicemail, people tend to focus on the good things you'd done for them before.
I’ve never been super into porn. It's a hard thing to wholeheartedly endorse. But one thing I do like is when it’s a human with an alien. You have to be sure that the actor really is an alien though, not a human pretending to be one, or it deadens the effect. Better still if the alien is non-humanoid in form, or even non-carbon based. The creativity you see... life finding a way... is really something.
